False Twin Flames
What is a False Twin Flame?
You may have heard or read about “False Twin Flames” and how we can accidentally end up loving a False Twin Flame in the mistaken belief that they are our true Twin Flame - But I’m here to tell you that this is very unlikely so please don’t be afraid or worried that there’s some evil False Twin Flame out there, just waiting to trick you into love…because that certainly isn’t the case.
If you think that you might be with a “False Twin Flame” and that’s why you’re reading this post, then please let me reassure you that the “False Twin Flame” concept is not as scary as it seems. There’s nothing to fear on the path to unconditional love.
If you do find yourself in a relationship that’s based in fear or negativity, this is NOT a Twin Flame relationship or a “False Twin Flame” but simply a toxic, unhealthy relationship which has nothing to do with the Twin Flame connection and should not be romanticised as such.
(Avoid these common Twin Flame Mistakes, find out more Here - 15 mistakes Twin Flames commonly make when they reconnect in this lifetime)
Do you meet a False Twin Flame just before meeting your True Twin Flame?
Some say that you meet a “False Twin Flame” just before your real Twin Flame enters your life. Although, there is some truth to this scenario it’s not how you might think - we do meet other important souls before meeting our Twin Flame but not in the dreaded “False Twin Flame” sense.
Some relationships are just needed to be experienced before union with our Twin Flame can take place (and this isn’t just limited to relationships, there can be many things our soul wants to achieve before being ready for union) It might be to resolve past karma or cycles, to teach us a particular lesson or to give us insight that we needed before we can progress, it’s not necessarily a “False Twin Flame” - more just another soul connection that you was destined to experience.
After all, it’s very unlikely that our Twin Flame will be our one and only ever romantic connection, many Twin Flames have relationships prior to union or are even married before meeting their Twin Flame.
(Find out more about Twin Flames who are Married Here - My Twin Flame Is Already Married To Somebody Else)
Think about your past encounters or relationships, even the seemingly insignificant ones - what did you learn from those relationships? - There’s always knowledge to be gained from our connections with others.
So although It may be true that we might enter into a significant relationship that helps prepare us for our Twin Flame, this doesn’t make them a False Twin Flame either. It’s much more likely that you’ll experience relationships with soulmates or other divine soul connections in preparation for your Twin Flame, than a supposed “False Twin Flame”.
How do I know if I’m with a False Twin Flame?
Identifying a False Twin Flame is very similar to identifying anybody else who isn’t “the one” for you, as they are very much one and the same.
We can experience a whole range of different relationships before truly meeting our Twin Flame and beginning the journey back to unconditional love, any one of these past encounters could be considered a “False Twin Flame” as really what a false twin represents is more of a ‘preparation’ Twin Flame, rather than being false in any way.
It would be quite unfair and hurtful to brand another human being as a “false” anything…we are all souls on a journey, after all. So, to diminish another persons life or soul mission down to simply being someone’s “False Twin Flame” isn’t something I agree with or believe in.
Any one of your prior relationships that was significant to you and your spiritual growth could be viewed as a part of your life that helped to prepare you for union. Even in non Twin Flame relationships people usually date other people first or have had other short or long term relationships where they’ve learnt how to be a better partner or friend through their own mistakes or past regrets etc. We are always learning and growing.
You may notice things you’ve learnt from others which are helpful to your Twin Flame relationship now but it’s not limited to just other people. All of your experiences, encounters, places you’ve been, things you’ve seen etc, can end up being an integral part of your journey towards your Twin Flame, regardless of the relationships you’ve had.
It all depends on how you wish to view your current or past relationships, you could regard a previous lover to be a “False Twin Flame” simply because they had certain qualities you felt a Twin Flame should have, or certain aspects that you was strongly drawn to at the time. They could have taught us a lot about love or about the world or ourselves and have been a valuable part of our preparation for joining in union with our Twin Flame later down the line.
Could they really be my Twin Flame?
Yes, you may be with your Twin Flame right now and just have some doubts after reading about False Twin Flames, you may just be questioning if they really are your Twin Flame or a dreaded false twin, like you’ve been reading about…unfortunately nobody knows the answer to that question but you.
Doubts can creep into any relationship for any number of reasons, including Twin Flame relationships. Always trust your instincts and intuition to guide you, only you know what and who’s right for you. Look within and see how you really feel. Don’t dismiss doubts, serious concerns or worries as them being a “False Twin Flame” as it is more of a label than it is a concept.
What would you advise to a friend who was in a relationship similar to you, would it be positive? Negative? Would you be worried? Etc.
On the other hand, you may look within and realise you’re in a wonderful relationship and those doubts weren’t needed, just like with non Twin Flame couples.
Should I worry about False Twin Flames?
Not at all, the “False Twin Flame” concept isn’t something I personally believe in or think carries much substance. Lots of people, who have never even heard of Twin Flames inexplicably end up in relationships that aren’t quite right or meant to be, there isn’t some mystical dark force at work popping out evil twins…just a world full of people, co-existing, going through life and learning about love & relationships, as we all do.
If you suspect that you’re with the wrong person or now believe that the one who you thought was your Twin Flame, actually isn’t…please don’t feel obliged to continue the connection under the pretence that they are your “False Twin Flame” or that they’ll somehow lead you to your True Twin Flame… if you’ve become aware that the connection isn’t quite right then it has probably already run its course and you’ve most likely gained all of the knowledge that you can from it. Again, always listen to your intuition or “inner knowing”, nobody knows what’s best for you, but you.
The more we fear or worry over the idea of a “False Twin Flame”, the more power we give to that concept and the more likely we’ll be to manifest someone who fits the idea of a “False Twin Flame” into our lives. Remember, like attracts like, so if we’re obsessing over False Twin Flames we’ll have more of a chance of attracting or being drawn to someone who will fulfil that idea. Keep your thoughts and intentions regarding your Twin Flame positive, light and full of unconditional love.
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